Being Mom

What does it mean to mom? It means being everything! We are incredible people that can multi task all the while trying remain in control as things are spinning out of control. Being at work is the easiest part of my day. I am only juggling phone calls, customers and quotes( I sell insurance) Then when I get home is when things get interesting. I run home pick up Russell, then run to pick up Riley from school, then take them to TRX with me. Now this is seemingly not a big deal. We get to TRX outside where Riley can run around and Russell well he just kind of hangs. So far seems easy. I always get there about 10 minutes late so I jump in on the routine. Then it starts "mom I need to go pee" "mom, mom, mom" So we run to the bathroom I get back some stranger is holding my baby I am finally on the TRX and now I have some random dog licking my face. I am just trying to get a work out in and it is like I am Carl Burnett. I think I managed to get in a solid 30 minutes in. I'll take it. When I'm done I realize that Riley was trying to make grape juice with his grapes and is now DYING for a sushi dinner. Since his behavior was mediocre at best I oblige as I will never turn down a sushi dinner date. Thank goodness there is no school tomorrow which means no night time prep for the next day. Home and bed! Well almost. I have a quiche in the oven for breakfast tomorrow.

Trouble

Yesterday was a seemingly easy day. It only gets tricky after work when I am trying to juggle my evening. Today was TRX after work. I really wanted to go since its been forever since I have been. So when I went home during lunch I breaded my chicken, I had Riley's chicken nuggets cooking and I was at least half way ready for dinner.  Then comes the call for Joe. "My moms making pot roast want to go for dinner?" Me: Yes it would make it so much easier for me when I get done with TRX. Then I can just go there and not worry about cooking. The chicken cutlets can wait until tomorrow. So after work I scooped up Russell picked up Riley and we headed to go see Terri (she is the BEST) and I got my TRX on. Then comes the beeping phone at 645 and its Joe already home. He is never home this early. Now comes the questions are you done yet, did you feed the dogs, did Riley eat blah blah blah. So I head home after my work out and Riley wanted his nuggets so the plan was to get the nuggets and then go to my in laws. Well when i pull in to the house Joe was already home done from eating dinner. So now comes the tantrum because Riley wanted to see Grandma and Joe and i are trying to talk over the tantrum. ME: you ate already HIM: Yes ME: Did you bring me home dinner? HIM: No ME: Are you kidding did you not here me say that we were going to meet you there HIM: with a dumb look on his face do you want me to see if there is any left over? ME: (thinking you are an effin jerk) NO!!! So I mellowed down the tantrum and threw my chicken cutlets in the oven and made my dinner. After a few minutes Joe asks are you not talking to me and I replied no. That was it I fed Russell put him to sleep and off to bed i went knowing that I was waking in a few hours for his middle of the night feeding. Joe put Riley to bed and fell asleep with him. A few hours later Riley was in my bed and Joe still upstairs sleeping. I wake up this morning and get ready to go for a run and my lovely husband questions my running with but you just worked out yesterday. Yes Joe but today is a new day. I hit the road for 3 miles and when I returned to the house I had a steaming cup of coffee waiting and a steaming bath. All is forgiven!!!

Tuesday Craze

Russell did great last night. He went to sleep in his crib around 8pm then woke up at 330 then again at around 7. This was fantastic. I had just enough energy to get out of the house for a 3 mile run this morning. These morning runs have not been happening so this was huge. I am going to do a half marathon in February and I really want to work on my time. I did 3.2 in 26 min. I am finally getting a little closer to my pre pregnancy times. I am hoping to do the half in at least 2 hours which means I really need to get out there and get my speed work in. It is just so hard with the limited sleep and still nursing, but I did today and that is all that matters. 

After work I came home to mania. My 4 year old was super hyped up wanting to play outside and demanding all my attention. So I was on go when I really wanted to be in chill relax mode. I guess not the best idea to try and sleep train this one tonight. Riley is almost 4 and sleeps in our bed. I know to some this is a no no but for us it always just worked. My only concern with this now is that he is not going to bed at a reasonable time unless you think 930 10 is reasonable and then he does not want to get up for school which then means me late for work. With all his stuffed animals in his bed I left him to sleep. 1 hour later Riley down stairs asking for Joe to sleep with him. Now they are both asleep in his bed. I'm not going to lie I am totally enjoying the peace as I sit in bed writing this blog. Glad that I made it another day as a mother of 2. Tomorrows task will be trying to get him to school and me to work on time and then getting in a training session having to take the 2 boys with me. Oh the happy chaos of being a mother of 2. 

Fiscal Freeze

Has anyone watched that show extreme cheapskates? Well unlucky me my lovely honey watched and now I am on whats called a fiscal freeze. This means that there is no spending for one week. No gas, grocery, no training sessions, and NO STARBUCKS!!! The only spending I can do is if I scrounge up some change. I am now on day 5. I never realized how hard it was not to spend money. I LOVE spending money and oh how I miss my lattes and weekly blow dry. So since this challenge has me biting my nails to spend money I went right for the change jar. Did I mention I had to do my own manicure this week too!  I have been collecting change in my jar for 2 years and now seemed like the perfect time to break it out. I packed up my change and right to the coin machine I went. $299.30!!!! Yippee Starbucks for everyone!! Of course we had gotten an invite to a birthday party for one of Riley's classmates so at least we had money for the present and lunch at one of our fav jewish delis after. This money is burning a whole in my pocket and I can not wait until Wednesday when I can spend away.
We have bee managing ok with food, but now its getting kinda light. We had a few days of salads and then some things I had in the freezer. I think I may have even lost a few pounds this week too! That's a bonus. I am out of gas in one car and fortunately we have 2 so now I am in the truck. I cannot imagine having to ride my bike all dressed for work. I really have no idea why I agreed to this, but I am saving by not going to Starbucks everyday. You should try it and see how you do. I am getting crabby. I want to register for a half marathon and I have to wait until Wednesday! Well I am off to eat my homemade lunch Salad and butternut squash soup. Happy cheap skating!

I'm Back

Its been a long while since I have been on the blog. Oh how my life has changed! I am now the proud mother of 2 boys! Life has become a little more hectic and a lot more entertaining. I am now a wife, mother, sister, friend and MARATHONER. Yes I have run in 2 marathons. This blog is about my life and figuring out how to be a mom, wife all the wile trying to stay sane. So I tip my bottle of cabernet back and watch the chaos that at times is my life. Life is never perfect but its my life and I thank God for all craziness everyday.